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Married By Cole is a Alberta appointed wedding officiant based in Calgary. Cole Hofstra is the outgoing and energetic personality behind Married By Cole, and he makes it his mission to craft beautiful and bespoke occasions of commitment and love. This celebrant enjoys cultivating a fun and enjoyable atmosphere so that happy couples can cherish an unforgettable ceremony.

Services Offered

Cole likes to help to-be-weds craft their own personalized vows, and he works closely with them to perfect the words and the delivery. By doing this, he is able to create a meaningful experience that truly honours the fact that two people have decided to come together in unity. As such, each couple can authentically express their emotions in a relaxed way. Cole enjoys creating a ceremony that everyone can enjoy, and this means that the “I do” moment is treated with the gravitas and respect it truly deserves. Typically, Married By Cole can preside over events that last from less than half an hour up to a whole hour. This means that Cole can be versatile and flexible with the way he structures the layout and flow of the moment. Ultimately, his goal is to provide clients with a once-in-a-lifetime spectacle that reflects the distinction of the day.

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Frequently asked questions

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Civil union
Single religion
Interfaith ceremony
Non-religious
Vow renewal
Ceremony rehearsal

What services do you provide?

Licensed
Allow couple' own vows

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Baptist
Catholic
No denomination
Earth-based
Taoist

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$375

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$100

If you offer pre-marital counseling, what is the starting price for (per session)?

$15
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Reviews for Married By Cole

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Julia
Julia Sent on 02/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Such a memorable, heartfelt and personal ceremony

If you're getting married in Calgary or the surrounding area, you NEED to hire Cole as your officiant! He did such an amazing job at our wedding at the Banff Springs. Cole is so charismatic and energetic, it never felt boring. The ceremony was personalized to us (the couple) without feeling TOO close & personal (no TMI content LOL).
During the planning process, Cole sends you a document of questions to fill
out - it definitely took some time to finish but so worth it! We didn't ask for a reading in the document and Cole surprised us with one that really moved both my husband and I (our eyes got watery at the altar!). He added in some funny moments and jokes which were much appreciated to help with the developing tears.
After the ceremony, all our guests kept telling us how amazing Cole was as our officiant and that they want him to officiate their weddings! We are just so happy to have picked Cole for our special day! :)
Alysha
Alysha S. Sent on 21/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Cole is simply the BEST - Personalized, heartfelt, unforgettable elopement!

We cannot thank Cole enough for making our wedding day so memorable! He made the entire process seamless and fun and had a special way of calming our nerves. He also accommodated us last minute (a 2 week period) which was very much appreciated. Cole did a fantastic job officiating our elopement ceremony. It was so personalized and heartfelt and unique to us. Cole takes the time to get to know his couples and adds many personal touches. Cole really made our ceremony more than we could have ever imagined, and we are so incredibly happy with his services as an officiant. I truly cannot recommend him enough. Cole, thank you for being such a big part of our day, you are gifted at what you do and we so appreciate you for it!
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Sydney H. Sent on 01/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Best decision ever

When we got engaged nearly two years before our wedding, one of the first recommendations we received was to have Married By Cole as our officiant – and I’m so glad we did! From start to finish, Cole was absolutely incredible. He took the time to guide us through the entire marriage process and explained what to expect on the wedding day, which put us at ease.

Our ceremony ended up being a standout moment, not just for us but for all our guests. Through our calls and the online rehearsal, Cole truly understood our vision and tailored the ceremony to reflect our personalities. He even included a special moment including asking my father-in-law to sing "Dancing Queen" by ABBA and added a quote from The Office, making it uniquely ours.

The flow of the ceremony was seamless, with smooth transitions that made everything feel perfect. Cole was easy to follow, and his warmth and charisma made our day feel even more special.

If you're in Alberta and recently engaged, don’t hesitate – having Cole as our officiant was one of the BEST decisions we made!
Bianca
Bianca H. Sent on 24/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Cole is the best!

I didn't know what to expect from the ceremony as it was an elopement so thought it would be fairly basic, but Cole made it truly amazing. He made everything so fun, upbeat, personalised - I honestly couldn't have asked for more. We loved everything Cole put together, and really appreciated his humour and energy! Thank you Cole!
Darcy
Darcy W. Sent on 08/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

There's a reason why Cole is the BEST

Cole, you were incredible! Not only day of, but months leading up to. You provided such a personalized, and enjoyable experience. Jackson and I appreciated how much time you took for us, with the initial consultation, to getting to know us as a couple, and to meeting again with us a week before the wedding to go over everything. We don't know what we would have done without you!

I was freaking out about the ceremony, certain I would forget everything you had told us leading up, or worried I would mess up - and that didn't happen because of you. As soon as you started speaking with Jackson and I, it felt as though a life long friend was sharing our memories and our relationship with family and friends. Through personalized stories and perfect jokes to add light-heartedness to our ceremony, everything you did was perfect. Our guests continued to come up to us throughout the night, ecstatic at how incredible the ceremony was and so impressed with the job you did! We really lucked out finding you, and I'm so happy for the couples that have gotten to have you as their officiant, and the couples that will get you as their officiant, because it's an unforgettable experience, and one that will be talked about for the rest of their lives - because that's what Jackson and I have been doing since our wedding. You are something else, and anyone who gets to know you as a person and have you as their officiant is so freaking lucky! A million, billion, trillion thank yous, Cole!
Alyssa
Alyssa Sent on 03/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Made our ceremony personalized, romantic and the perfect amount of funny!

Cole officiated our wedding in June, and we can’t say enough good things about him! He had us and our guests feeling at ease instantly, and as two people who don’t like attention on us, this made all the difference for my husband and I.

We were so happy with the ceremony and how personalized he was able to make it! A ceremony can be quick and straightforward, but we wanted something that played on our years together as a couple and who we are as individuals, and Cole was able to deliver even more than we expected. He managed to weave together all the legalities, sentimental pieces, and funny anecdotes, so beautifully – it’s really amazing how well he can represent two people that he only knows via an online questionnaire and a few phone calls. Not only were we happy with it, but many of our family and friends commented on how authentic and personal it felt.

Cole was organized, punctual and made everything easy for us, so we didn’t have to worry about a thing. He even reviewed our personal vows for us to make sure they somewhat matched in length/tone, which was helpful! If you’re looking for an officiant and want a personalized ceremony, would absolutely recommend Cole!
Megan
Megan A. Sent on 22/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

I'd get married again just to have Cole officiate!

There's a reason why Cole is consistently 5 stars. We would give him more if we could, tbh. Not to say that the other officiants we talked to weren't great, but there's something magical about Cole that set him apart from everyone else. Even from the moment you contact Cole, he's already trying to get to know you as a couple. Coming off of our first virtual meeting, we already knew in our guts that Cole had to be part of the wedding team. When we mentioned to the other vendors on our team that we had hired Cole, they had only great things to say about it, and he definitely exceeded our expectations. So to already be known in the wedding industry in that region speaks wonders about his professionalism and personality. From other reviews, one of the key things people tend to mention is that Cole "takes you on an emotional roller coaster....you're laughing one moment and then crying the next". That was the biggest feedback we got from our guests. Honestly, when our guests talk about our wedding, one of the first things they mention is Cole and how he was able to make them cry and laugh so much during the ceremony. It set the tone for the rest of the day. Although he may be present only at the beginning and towards the end of your wedding planning process, he truly does put in the work to make sure he knows his couples and curates an amazing ceremony.

Selfishly hope Cole stays in the game forever so I can have him again for our vow renewals in like 25/50 years.
Joni
Joni R. Sent on 13/11/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Made our ceremony so much fun and romantic!

Cole was such a great person to have officiated our ceremony. Through a few calls and our questionnaire he was able to get a sense of who we were and made our ceremony so special. He had the crowd cheering and laughing throughout and that made the moment so much fun.
Natasha
Natasha J. Sent on 26/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Unforgettable

Cole is hands down the best officiant ever! I have been to so many weddings and not a single officiant can top the amazing one at my wedding.. Cole! He made our wedding so perfect and all our guests have no lt stopped raving about him either. 10/10 recommend!!!
Brandy
Brandy R. Sent on 22/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Great choice for an officiant

Cole was wonderful to work with for our vow renewal. His detailed questionnaire beforehand really made the ceremony special. He and our photographer Dave, had a great comradery which made it fun.
I highly recommend his services!
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Meet the team

Cole Hofstra
Cole Hofstra
Owner and Officiant

Hi my name is Cole Hofstra and I am extreamly excited about potentailly working with you on your wedding ceremony.

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111 25TH AVE T2S3G4 Calgary (Alberta)

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